There are many women in this world who are in positions of authority. They may hold a position within a business that puts them in charge. Maybe they run their own business. Maybe they are a Doctor or Lawyer. Whatever the position and career, a woman can be in a position where she has to make decisions, direct other people, give orders, make choices that directly affect the outcome of a situation and greatly affects those around her. She is constantly giving her thoughts, mind, intellect, and experience to others.
A recent conversation revealed something to me. Let me explain. There are women in positions of power outside the home, as mentioned before, who are very successful in their careers. They make a great living for their family and provide very well. Their career has blossomed, and they have made great strides in becoming more and better within their chosen field. Yet, they still are not happy. There is still something missing. They feel like they aren't enough. Even at home they have people who rely on them to see to the household, and to their needs. So, not only do they give all they can at work, but also have to give even more of themselves at home. Always feeling like they aren't enough, they keep trying to give more, which continues to make them unhappy. It's a constant cycle of spiraling downward. Happiness in your professional life doesn't usually translate to overall happiness. there has to be a balance between the professional and the personal side.
Some of these women I speak of, at least for the point of this post, also happen to be submissive. When many of us think of a submissive, we think about her giving. We think about her giving herself, pleasing her partner, doing as he desires and requests, etc... It is all about her giving, and finding pleasure in that. That is true...to a degree. But, when she gives at work and gives at home, and doesn't receive anything tangible in return, that is where the unhappiness sets in.
This very well may not just apply to a submissive woman, but women in general. They can only give so much without receiving in return. They need to feel the strength of their partner. They need to feel wanted and needed. They need to feel appreciated and valued. They need the structure and discipline that they receive from their partner. When at home, they need to be able to follow and be guided. In some cases they need to be held accountable and held to strict obedience. They need to feel all of these things from their partner/Master/Dom. This is what keeps them balanced and centered. This is what makes them feel normal and like themselves. Without it they can feel lost and not knowing how to steer the ship straight.
It all begins at home. It all is based within your personal relationship with your partner. If you are unhappy with this aspect of your life, then it will carry over to your professional life. If you are happy and content in your personal life, then your professional life tends to look that much brighter. Submission by a woman isn't all about giving...it is also about receiving. A woman has to feel that she is receiving what she needs, or she will not be able to give the way she may like, or her partner may expect.
To all you men, Dominants, and Masters, I leave you with this little reminder...it's not all about what she gives you. It's not all about what you can take from her. What she receives from you is a big part of the equation. If she doesn't receive what she needs, then she can never be what you need her to be. She will never be happy, and then...well...what's the point. After all, this is about fulfilling the mutual needs of each other.
To all the women, submissives, and slaves I say this...it's ok to need. It's ok to expect your partner to give you what you need in your relationship, just as you give and offer to him what he needs. It's ok to look at your relationship and understand that you do need to have your needs met. It's ok to not just give, but to receive. Tis the season for not only giving, but...for receiving!
Some of these women I speak of, at least for the point of this post, also happen to be submissive. When many of us think of a submissive, we think about her giving. We think about her giving herself, pleasing her partner, doing as he desires and requests, etc... It is all about her giving, and finding pleasure in that. That is true...to a degree. But, when she gives at work and gives at home, and doesn't receive anything tangible in return, that is where the unhappiness sets in.
This very well may not just apply to a submissive woman, but women in general. They can only give so much without receiving in return. They need to feel the strength of their partner. They need to feel wanted and needed. They need to feel appreciated and valued. They need the structure and discipline that they receive from their partner. When at home, they need to be able to follow and be guided. In some cases they need to be held accountable and held to strict obedience. They need to feel all of these things from their partner/Master/Dom. This is what keeps them balanced and centered. This is what makes them feel normal and like themselves. Without it they can feel lost and not knowing how to steer the ship straight.
It all begins at home. It all is based within your personal relationship with your partner. If you are unhappy with this aspect of your life, then it will carry over to your professional life. If you are happy and content in your personal life, then your professional life tends to look that much brighter. Submission by a woman isn't all about giving...it is also about receiving. A woman has to feel that she is receiving what she needs, or she will not be able to give the way she may like, or her partner may expect.
To all the women, submissives, and slaves I say this...it's ok to need. It's ok to expect your partner to give you what you need in your relationship, just as you give and offer to him what he needs. It's ok to look at your relationship and understand that you do need to have your needs met. It's ok to not just give, but to receive. Tis the season for not only giving, but...for receiving!
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