There is just something about in a relationship with someone that has so much passion it is almost indescribeable. Someone that has a fire that burns so hot it can't be put out. And not just any passion, but a passion for you.
I have been in relationships where I have the passion and total need for someone, but it wasn't reciprocated. I have been involved with the contrary of them having it for me, but I just didn't feel it the same way. It's when the two of you have the same feeling of want, need and passion for each other, that the relationship almost becomes magical. There is nothing like being so into someone that it almost drives you batty. Yet, at the same time they feel the same way about you. It's the knowing that the other person is as into you as you are them that really gets things going.
Then as things really move forward the NEED realy starts to creep in. When that person needs you and has to have what you offer. Is there anything better? In the context of most of the things I write about (D/s), need is everything. It's what makes things operate like a well oiled machine. A sub that really needs her Dom, and all he can offer her. A Dom that needs his sub, and all she gives him in return. Without need, it's just vanilla. Feeling the need, understanding it, accepting it, and not being afraid of it is vital. A sub needs her Dom, the control he gives her, and it makes her feel safe and secure with where she is. Without it she is lost. this also goes for a Dom. If he didn't need his sub, then what's the point?!?!
We all want to have that person to need and to need us. We all have feelings and personalities that contain needs, and we all want tofeed that need as much as possible. To have the need and passion that makes you want to crawl across the table just to indulge in each other because you can't wait any longer...well, that's just priceless!
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