Settle For Nothing Less...

This says what's been on my mind lately.  Sometimes so many things run through my head about this lifestyle and D/s, yet I just can't seem to formulate them into one complete post.  My thoughts can jump here and there and be all over the place.  But this pretty much says it all!  This says how I feel and see this and what I think it should encompass and be. ~DV~

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Video: Naked rugby players

I'll be back soon - but wanted to share this...

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If I Want Her Heart...

I can be Dominant...I can control...I can be in charge....I can make demands...I can show strength...And power...I can bind...Cuff...Tie...I can spank...Whip...Cane...I can take...I can use...But...There's one thing...One...That I have no control over...Her heart!If I want her heart...To own it as well...To have it as mine...I have to earn it...To be worthy of it...To have it given to me...I can't take it from her...Or make her give it to me...That desire comes from deep within...She has to feel it...To feel it in her soul...To need me to have it...Because I deserve it...And once I have her h

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Can I be Dom? (Reader Question)

I recently received the below question as a comment on an older post.  I replied to the post and asked the anonymous commentor to send me an email, but wasn't sure if they would see the comment I made or not.  I think this is a good question and one that comes up in marriages fairly frequently.  So, why not post it here and hopefully help some people.  The comment left was as follows:My wife and I are thinking about doing this ,but I don't know how to start this life style.  I'm not sure I can be a Dom.  My wife seems to think i am.  So how do I start to cha

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Hump Day Humor

So funny!  And how many times have we actually sent a message to the wrong person, or even come close to doing so?!?!  Such a bad bad feeling .  LOL!DV

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Very Inspiring Blogger Award

I have been blessed to be nominated for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award.  I'm not sure I'm "Very Inspiring", but it's very nice to be recognized.  I'll agree that every once in a while something profound seeps out of my mind, but not regularly.  Anyway, I am honored someone sees me that way.  I was nominated by Cassaundra at Cassaundra With A Collar.  Thanks Dear!  Apparently these are the rules:1. Display the award logo on your blog. (Done)2. Link back to the person nominating you (Done)3. State 7 things about yourself.  (Oh Geesh)4. Nominate 15 other

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Good genes (2)

   

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